Does size matter?

Of course, we’re not talking about the size of your car, your house, or your feet. We’re talking about penis size. Does it really matter how big or small your [insert your penis nickname here] is when it comes to sex? When it comes to sex, the question “Does penis size matter?” is a hotly debated topic. Many wonder if penis size really makes a difference in sexual satisfaction. And there are even people who claim that there is an ideal size. The question is: does it really matter?

What is big?

Type 'what is the average penis size?' into Google and you will get a whole bunch of hits, often all saying something different. Let's take a 'range' of all those numbers, then we come to an average penis length (in erect state) of 9.5 to 15 centimeters. That 'range' is considered average. For convenience, let's call everything below that small and everything above that large.

What do the numbers say?

If you’ve got your measuring stick out, you now know which category you fall into. Now the question is: do those inches really matter? Several studies have shown that most women don’t consider penis length to be the most important factor in sexual satisfaction. According to a study published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, only 21% of women considered penis size to be important for their sexual pleasure. Unfortunately, nothing was said about the opinion of the rest of the world’s population…

What is really important?

If size isn't important, what really makes you a superstar in bed? Communication, technique, and emotional connection. Yeah, yeah, a big guy alone won't cut it. Knowing what your bed partner(s) like(s) (communication), knowing how to apply that (technique), and making a real connection (emotional connection) will at least make your sex report cards go up.

In addition, after a survey, self-confidence is also mentioned as a big 'turn on' in bed. Finding yourself and your little (or big) soldier attractive contributes to your bed partner(s) finding you more attractive. Be careful not to confuse self-confidence with arrogance, because that will have the opposite effect.

Tastes differ

Then you have people who are very specific about how many centimeters are ideal for them. That's perfectly fine, of course. Not your size? Wish them luck with their search and have a look around yourself. Every penis has a, uhm, lover?

Conclusion: Does Size Really Matter?

While penis size may be important to some, research and experience shows that other factors such as communication, technique, and emotional connection are much more important for a satisfying sex life. By focusing on these aspects and possibly using sex toys, everyone can enjoy a pleasurable sex life, with or without a penis.